If a man wants
you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want
you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to
change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a
relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck
no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If
you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because
you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year
later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control
in a relationship is you. Avoid men who have a bunch of children by a bunch of
different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he
treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from
his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you,
speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change
a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more
important than you are. Even if he has has more education or in a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man
define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you,
he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat
you. All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be
the one doing all the bending... Compromise is two way street. You need time to
heal between relationships. There is nothing cute about baggage... Deal with
your issues before pursuing a new
relationship. You
should never look for someone to COMPLETE you. A relationship consists of two
WHOLE
individuals. Look
for someone complimentary...
not supplementary.
Dating is fun...
Even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes...
When a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him
~ he takes it for granted. Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign
for a man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you
need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Scared of being
alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive or
hurtful: Dr. Phil says... You should know that: You're the best thing that
could ever happen to anyone and if a man mistreats you, he'll miss out on a
good thing. If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that he's
not the only one. They're all watching you, so you have a lot of choices. Make
the right one. Ladies take care of your own hearts...
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