Waltz Disney... :)

And so after waiting so long, a day like any other I decided to succeed ...

I decided not to wait for opportunities, but I myself find them,

I decided to see every problem as an opportunity to find a solution,

I decided to see each desert and the opportunity to find an oasis,

I decided to see each night as a mystery to solve,

I decided to see each day as a new chance at happiness.

One day I discovered that my only rival was no more than my own weaknesses, and for these, is the single best way to improve ourselves.

One day I stopped being afraid of losing and I began to fear not to win,

I discovered that I was not the best and perhaps never was.,

I ceased to matter who won or lost;

I now know myself better than just matter yesterday.

I learned how difficult it is to reach the top, but never stop climbing.

Learned that the best that I can win is to have the right to call someone "friend."

I discovered that love is more than just a state of infatuation,

"Love is a philosophy of life."

That day I stopped being a reflection of my few triumphs past and I became my own dim light of this present, I learned that light is worthless if you're not going to light the way for others.

One day I decided to change so many things ...

That day I learned that dreams are only to be realized.

Since that day I do not sleep to rest ... Now I sleep just to dream.

Walter Elias Disney

put ourselves in their shoes

"Only curiosity about the fate of others, the ability to put ourselves in their shoes, and the will to enter their world through the magic of imagination, creates this shock of recognition. Without this empathy there can be no genuine dialogue, and we as individuals and nations will remain isolated and alien, segregated and fragmented." - Azar Nafisi

HEAR WHAT OPRAH WINFREY HAD TO SAY ABOUT MEN!

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.

If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who have a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are. Even if he has has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs.

You should not be the one doing all the bending... Compromise is two way street. You need time to heal between relationships. There is nothing cute about baggage... Deal with your issues before pursuing a new

relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you. A relationship consists of two WHOLE

individuals. Look for someone complimentary...

not supplementary.

Dating is fun... Even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes... When a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him ~ he takes it for granted. Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive or hurtful: Dr. Phil says... You should know that: You're the best thing that could ever happen to anyone and if a man mistreats you, he'll miss out on a good thing. If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that he's not the only one. They're all watching you, so you have a lot of choices. Make the right one. Ladies take care of your own hearts...